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At what point exactly did society decide it is the mans responsibility to continually entertain the gal? Are ladies, in a general sense, incapable of coming up with things to do? Or is it they need to be constantly distracted so as to not have to form a thought?
And while I'm at it, there is no such thing as a perfect man; no one is going to know what to do and how to respond in every situation according to you. The very notion suggests immaturity. Fairy tales are ed such for a reason. This doesn't mean you can't find a wonderful companion. But there are realizations that one must come to before this can happen. Companion meaning equal partners.
Ok next point, sex. Sex is what you make of it. Everyone enjoys a good romp in the sack, ya? If this is being played as a power card then perhaps its time to reassess your relationship or your idea of this. Sex is not an equalizer or a resolution to a disagreement. Sex is hopefully a bi-product of how 2 people feel about eachother on an emotional and mental level more so then physical. Or at least is a mutual connection devoid of silent agreements.
Truth. Easy to say, hard to maintain. Why is it, I wonder, necessary to bullshit? For example someone asks you how you are, the general response is 'fine how are you?' Automatic, like a reflex mechanism or a robot. Do you stop to ponder how you are feeling and answer honestly? And do you really care how that person is doing? If you don't feel like talking what's the harm in saying that? Why do ppl play nice when a person is present but speak ill of said person when s/he is not present? Do you have a forked tongue? If you only practice honesty sometimes how do you justify that to yourself? The lies that bind...liberation is achieved through truth. If you're not careful and don't practice some form of self-reflection you just may wake up one day a shadow of your former self with not the tools nor the desire for repair. Welcome to the creeping sleep, welcome to Zombieland
"You are not your job. You are not how much money you have in the bank. You are not the car you drive. You are not the contents of your wallet. You're not your fucking khakis. You're the all-singing, all-dancing crap of the world." -Tyler Durden, Fight Club. Value does not lie in possessions or external validations. Such things do not define you. If you measure your worth on what you own or the position you hold, if the lens of society is your constant, then I do feel sorry for you. You don't need a new car if you're old one works fine. Possessions themselves are not a bad thing. They are quite often a source of superficial happiness. These become obstacles when addiction sets in. People become conditioned. There is a place for these but if overused many of these lead to laziness and/or distraction. There is a great big mysterious world out there and within you. What makes you happy, not what the world thinks/projects.
Are these standards too much to ask for in today's world? If that's the case I guess im effed. Does anything in this post resonate with you? I am looking for people to enjoy life with, are you good company? You've probably put together by now I am a free-thinker (or that I'm a wierdy, haha) whose not afraid to give it to you straight. I appreciate the quality. I do enjoy the outdoors, physical activities, music, movies, books (yea, I read), warm showers, a tasty burger and a cold beer, art, walking in the rain, new experiences. I have 2 daughters who live with me 1/2 time that I find spectacular.
I don't have many rigid prerequisites on what qualities you must have (or admit to having). I feel doing such is greatly limiting. If you've read this entire post and you're interested, you're likely good in my book. I will say if you are overweight and plan on maintaining (or don't have the means to alter) said lifestyle it is likely we will not make much of a connection. I am a very active person and am not much of a texter or conversationalist. I prefer enjoying the fullness of the person with whom I am communicating with, there is much lost in the digital world. If you're concerned that your age is not within an acceptable proximity you're probably right. I'm looking to share my awesomeness with someone who feels the same about themself, for companionship and to let nature do its thing. May joy find a home in your heart evermore.
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